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grandelelo says

The situation you are in is very complicated, I know :(.

There is no direct solution I can give you, but you can try every day go out of your house, meet some friends, go to places where you can see talk to people exchange ideas, church is a good place to go :) for eg… go out to the world! the opportunities are out there.

If you do that for some days I’m sure something or someone will open a way for you to get money.

+ You are in USA :D

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joiaco says

I think it is amazing how many responses you have had here in such a short time. Community is so important – when my son died in 2010 after a long cancer illness, it left me and my other son totally broke and i discovered by chance that the best remedy for depression is to go out and do something for others who are worse off than you. Somehow things begin to come back. I hope this works for you.

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permian says

joiaco, that’s so awful to hear such things. Hope time was the cure, and you’re Ok now.

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joiaco says

joiaco, that’s so awful to hear such things. Hope time was the cure, and you’re Ok now.

Yes thanks Permian, time and a realistic attitude will always bring a person out of the ‘self’ perspective and into a greater space of ‘all life’, so this is the point that TNL5432 could take comfort from.

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Graphic-Studio says

I heard that Georgia has jobs – are you close to GA?

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Australia says

Awesome graphic, graphic-studio

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miseld says

hey guys im sitting here im really stressed and depressed and i dont know what to do about it. i know im not suppoed to bring this kind of stuff on the fourms i just need someone to talk to

Hi TNL3542, email me maybe I can help you somehow.

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Graphic-Studio says

Awesome graphic, graphic-studio

Found it somewhere on FB.

On another note the TNL – if your Mother-In-Law is ill and Retired (collecting SSI) maybe you can get Caretaker Funds to help out from the SocSec Office (?). Worth a check see.

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Mirtt says

First, relax, you are not in any danger, enjoy this positive support from the community, which means that people care about each other and that alone is one the greatest thing humans can do.

Graphic-Studio just showed you an awesome image, which hopefully reminds you that how lucky you are to be alive. I’ve seen people who no matter what, will always find a way to moan about their problems and I’ve seen people who no matter what happened to them, always found a way to be happy. I am sure that you wife appreciates more just your presence and that alone is more than any gift you can offer to her. Just like any other people on the planet you will have hard and awesome moments, you might be in a bad times now but good times will come for sure. Take care! :)

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DanyDuchaine says

Maybe it’s going to sound rude but it’s not at all.

Complaining never helped anyone and it’s probably because of that bad habit that you are in this position today. If you realize it and accept it and decide to be careful about what you say and think (especially thinking) .. things will change trust me.

In our world today, complaining is really popular, because it’s the best way to put the blame on something else instead of really looking at what you did wrong and what you could adjust to make your life better. It also contribute to feeding your “Ego” wich need negative stuff to stay alive.

Focus on the present, your wife, your health. From there just ask yourself what you can do “TODAY” to make your life better, starting by stopping the complaning. Make little changes every day, little effort and you will see results.

Do not try to do everything at once, it will only discourage you and this is the biggest trap of always thinking about the future and trying to plan everything.

And don’t stay inside, take long walk if you can .. look at nature, animals, children etc ..

Hope it help!

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